It All Began When They Said "No."
Not loudly. Not dramatically.
It was just enough of a no to make you pause and think, hang on… what now?
Midlife has a way of doing that.
Your body starts changing.
Your energy feels different.
Your brain won’t slow down.
And the things that used to work suddenly don’t.
Slow mornings (by necessity), prayer & Bible, perpetually rushing, planning my next meal, brain doing far too much, late nights I regret.
On Pinterest for nail inspo, scrolling Vinted, stalking Rightmove, researching supplements, making another list, drinking coffee.
Hustling,'6 figure' culture, 'good vibes', manifesting, the universe, perfection and toxic positivity.
Honest conversations, kind boundaries, faith that works on a Tuesday, listening to your body, less striving, more trust.
My superpower is helping you make sense of midlife.
It’s the place where coping gets exhausting, where pushing harder starts to backfire, and where pretending you’re fine feels too heavy to keep up.
It’s also where God gently asks, 'what if you didn’t rush this'?
This season invites better questions. Questions about your body, your work, your faith, and your pace. Questions that go deeper than quick fixes or surface-level answers.
Not to fix you.
But to free you.
This is the messy middle ...
I help you understand what’s happening in your body.
I help you support your energy without punishing yourself.
I help you calm a busy brain instead of constantly fighting it.
This work is practical and faith-led.
It’s grounded in real life, not perfection.
It’s about less striving and more clarity.
Less pressure and more peace.
The kind of peace that still holds on a Thursday afternoon.
Not to fix you.
But to free you.
to a good podcast or Gospel
listening:
sushi (spicy sashimi)
CRAVING:
marketing made simple
READING:
sparkling water (I'm obsessed)
DRINKING:
Friends ... for the 13764 time!
watching:
Current obsessions
My Favorite Things
Traveling — especially to cute cafes in Charleston like this one!
my happy place!
The Beach! It's my zone of serenity where all of my best ideas happen.
Accessorizing. I'm that girl with 47 pairs of earrings and a closet of full of shoes. Hey, we all have our passions in life.
My Favorite Things
Sunshine. Wayfarers kickstarter semiotics, quinoa godard dreamcatcher hexagon pop-up hoodie.
Ice cream. Microdosing gochujang keffiyeh salvia. Hoodie knausgaard art party.
my guilty pleasure
Photos! Hashtag fashion axe palo santo fanny pack, ramps cornhole messenger bag asymmetrical.
coffee
BEACH
EARLY BIRD
Winter
POPCORN
Designer
Still
TEA
mountains
night owl
Summer
Chocolate
High Street
sparkling
Where I stand on the super important stuff... Agree / disagree?
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Faith-led support for women in midlife — hormones, energy, busy brains and real life.
Less fluff. More honesty. A lot of grace.
did we just become best friends?